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#1 NEW MUST-READ AND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE BESTSELLER • ONE OF AMERICA’S MUST-READ BOOKS OF 2023 • Author CL. Reddon reveals targeted strategies for building loving and lasting relationships in today’s turbulent times.

Finding the right partner for any relationship, marital commitment, or romance may not be as straightforward as it may seem. But CL Reddon believes we can all make this exercise significantly easier by employing and applying a set of communication and investigation strategies for successfully navigating the waters of love, romance, and relationships.

In Dig Deep Before You Leap, he engages readers in a direct and straightforward discussion, addressing questions such as: Is it possible to build a relationship that is both lasting and loving? What is the most effective way to build an honest, enduring union? What are the principles that lead to enduring relationships? How do we distinguish between individuals who are compatible and those who are not? When searching for the right person, how do we recognize red flags, imminent dangers, and warning signs?

CL. Reddon reveals to readers a series of revealing perspectives and enlightening reflections on life, love, and relationships, including his belief that when we dig deep and discover the truth within ourselves, we will have the opportunity to discover deeper truths and create new opportunities for enduring relationships with the individuals we are considering for partnership and romance.

Using lessons learned from the failed relationships and marital experiences of his early years, he shares the habits and principles he has developed to successfully evolve and overcome various personal and situational challenges often detrimental to having a successful relationship. He details his most valuable practices, which place emphasis on understanding oneself and their potential partner using practical research, investigation, and evaluation tools. With his trademark humor, messages of transformation, warmth, and wisdom, he also explores issues relating to divorce, broken families, absentee parenting, challenging readers to consider several real-life scenarios before getting into relationships or tying the knot.

“In a society filled with broken marriages, families, and dreams, the last thing we need is another example of a married couple that could not get the institution of marriage right," remarks CL. Reddon. An easy-to-read, fascinating collection of compelling perspectives accompanied by wise advice designed to spark lively discussion, Dig Deep Before You Leap encourages readers to examine their own lives, identify their personality type, and connect meaningfully and romantically with those for whom they are deeply suited.

PRAISE

  1. "I couldn't be more grateful for CL. Reddon's book, 'Dig Deep Before You Leap.' It opened my eyes to the importance of premarital investigation and counseling and helped me make a more informed decision about my future. Thank you!" - Stephanie W., from Austin, TX.

  2. "As someone who has been through a divorce, I wish I had read CL. Reddon's book beforehand. 'Dig Deep Before You Leap' is a must-read for anyone considering marriage, and I highly recommend it." - Andrew K., from Atlanta, GA.

  3. "CL. Reddon's book, 'Dig Deep Before You Leap,' is a fantastic resource for anyone navigating the complexities of relationships. The sections on red flags and deal breakers are particularly enlightening. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone." - Samantha C., from Seattle, WA.

  4. "I recently got engaged and my fiancé and I both read CL. Reddon's book, 'Dig Deep Before You Leap.' It sparked some really important conversations and gave us a lot to think about before tying the knot. Thank you for this wonderful resource!" - Jake M., from Denver, CO.

  5. "I cannot recommend CL. Reddon's book, 'Dig Deep Before You Leap,' enough. The section on understanding and having good credit before marriage was particularly helpful for me, and I feel so much more prepared for this next chapter of my life. Thank you!" - Olivia S., from Chicago, IL.

  6. "CL. Reddon's book, 'Dig Deep Before You Leap,' is a game-changer. It covers everything you need to know about marriage, divorce, and premarital investigation and counseling. I feel so much more confident about my future after reading this book." - Ethan H., from Miami, FL.

  7. "If you're getting married soon, do yourself a favor and read CL. Reddon's book, 'Dig Deep Before You Leap.' It's packed with valuable information that will help you make informed decisions about your future. I can't recommend it enough!" - Grace L., from San Francisco, CA.

  8. "CL. Reddon's book, 'Dig Deep Before You Leap,' is a must-read for anyone in a serious relationship. The sections on red flags and deal breakers really hit home for me, and I feel so much more prepared for whatever the future may hold. Thank you for this fantastic resource!" - Max P., from New York, NY.

  9. "I have been recommending CL. Reddon's book, 'Dig Deep Before You Leap,' to everyone I know. It's a comprehensive guide to navigating the complexities of relationships, and I learned so much from reading it. Thank you for this fantastic resource!" - Lily G., from Los Angeles, CA.

READ AN EXCERPT

Introduction When most people decide to get married, they often base their decision to wed on what they feel and not necessarily what they can prove. With that said, any relationship built on fraudulent information or details is a relationship that will not last. The ignorance we have regarding the people we marry, eventually sleep with, and conceive children is dangerous. If we are not willing to investigate the person’s background for whom we are promising to marry, how do we know that someday that person will not be the one to end our existence on earth? ​Now, as farfetched as this might sound, this is a more sad reality for people than you might think. If you do not believe this is true, feel free to search your favorite search engine, type in the phrase ‘women killed by boyfriend,’ and then settle yourself in for some heartbreaking stories and gruesome statistics. People are tying the knot without knowing much about their tolerances, likes or dislikes, and even less about the person they are determined to be with for the rest of their lives. One of the number one causes of divorce involves infidelity or what many might call a lack of commitment. If you are not asking pointed questions to determine a potential spouses’ tolerance, how do you know that person will be committed in a relationship? How do you know that they will be faithful in marriage? ​If infidelity is the number one cause for divorce, issues involving money matters must be listed as 1A. How many folks do you presume to get married without knowing anything about their partner’s credit, spending habits, or how they earn their money? How many people engage in romantic relationships with those who lack a job or good credit but do so because of contributing factors associated with low self-esteem? Thus, ignoring one of the most impactful factors in any relationship? Accordingly, based on the reasons outlined in this prologue, this text was written. In truth, many people like myself have married and divorced multiple times without consideration of any of the information you are about to read. I hate to admit it, but much of what we have been taught about relationships and, to a large extent, life, in general, is fiction, fairytales, and mythology. If I may be very candid, no one is going to save you from yourself, your lack of knowledge, or your self-inflicted circumstances. This is a job that is exclusively yours. To attract the perfect mate, you must become their perfect match. Being the perfect spouse requires preparation. ​And to be clear, none of this is about your appearance, how well you smell, how well you cook, or how many sexual positions you can perform from the ceiling fan. What I am describing has to do with an individual’s character. ​Your personal development means that you have worked on the things that make you an asset as a partner and not a liability. You see, that is what I was in both my failed marriages. I was a huge liability. At the time, I really thought that my efforts made me an asset in their lives. I was mistaken. I was not an asset at all. I was just a fool. And for some people entering relationships, their entrance into a presumed love affair is all about the chores that they are looking to have some fool to do. This book was written to ensure that you do not end up in a relationship where you are not loved, respected, or valued. ​This happens to be where I found myself so many years ago. Through counseling, I learned that the biggest failure in my relationships was myself. Additionally, I had to accept that my role in not picking the right people to love was on me. I expected people to give me something that I did not pick them to do. If you want freshly squeezed orange juice for breakfast, why would you go out to purchase a barrel of tomatoes? If we choose people for purposes other than love, respect, and honor, we can expect those same people to give us things that do not include the aforementioned characteristics. ​In this regard, this is why I believe the expression that a good man or woman is hard to find is nonsense. How can a person rightfully define a good man or woman if they are not one themselves? How can a person declare what a good man or woman is when they have only been looking for sexual partners or glorified roommates? In my opinion, most people would not be able to tell the difference between a good man and a good woman even if someone stood directly in front of them with a sign around their neck declaring such. As a matter of fact, I believe that this is true because the characteristics of what it means to be a decent, kind, compassionate, caring, and unselfish individual are not taught, explained, exhibited, or revealed to us during our formative years. If we are honest, it is not reflected in the more significant portion of society from which we originate. Excerpted from Dig Deep Before You Leap by CL. Reddon. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.

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“In my experience with relationships, I have learned that it is critical to recognize when things are not going well. But before pointing fingers, it's imperative to take a serious, look at yourself and figure out what you really want. Whether you are seeking a serious relationship or are just dating, it is imperative that you build a lasting, genuine connection with your partner. Sure, those happy brain chemicals like dopamine might make you feel warm and fuzzy, but a successful relationship requires more than just attraction. It takes time and effort to build something that lasts. And while physical intimacy might be easy, building a real relationship is a different story. It's all about putting in the work and being committed to making it work. Ultimately, our ability to maintain successful relationships depends on how much effort we are willing to put in. And it doesn't get any deeper than that!”

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